You’ve all heard of sexual role-play in the bedroom, the kind where you dress up as a naughty nurse or a sexy fireman or introduce playful objects such as fuzzy handcuffs or a giant feather! The turn on in this type of sexual play is taking on a new exciting role that you may not normally associate yourself with – hence the name role-play!
But there is also a form of role-play that can be equally as exciting, and you can do it anywhere you have access to the Internet – it’s sexual role-play online. It’s very similar to the role-play in the bedroom, as you take on a new role, but instead of acting it out physically, you develop this new persona through creative writing. It might take a little getting use to, but if you’ve ever had sex before, you will find that you can fall into the swing of things very easily, and it’s actually rather simple. Whatever you would normally do to your partner physically, you just describe with words instead. It may sound a little silly, but it can be rather exciting, but it’s not for everyone.
There are many methods to choose from to play out your role-play, bur first you need someone to role-play with! If you were in a relationship, than it would be fun to send sexy messages back and forth to one another throughout the day. Who knows, it might lead to other things when you get home!
Sexual role-play works best when it’s two sided, meaning whoever you’re sending the messages to, will be replying with their own role-play as well. You could use e-mail as your communication form if you wish (just make sure your e-mail isn’t monitored if you’re doing this at work!), and simply go back and forth, role-playing out a scene, and bouncing off each other’s reply. For example, a way to set up a scene could go like…
…*She opens the office door quickly and closes it behind her quietly, being careful that no one has spotted her. She knew he’d still be in his business meeting and wanted to surprise him. She quickly hides her bag and headed into his private bathroom to change. Pulling her red sweater off over her head, she lets it fall to the floor, before unzipping her jeans and slipping them down over her ass and hips, before stepping out of them. Under her clothing she wore an emerald green teddy complete with fish net stockings and a guarder belt. She reaches into her bag to pull out her stiletto heels, and slip them onto her feet. After taking a final look in the mirror, tossing her hair and re-applying her crimson lipstick, she was ready*…
You can choose to either write in first or third person, the choice is totally up to you, whichever you feel most comfortable as for your writing style. From there, the person you’re role-playing with would reply with his (or her) own reply based on what he wants his reaction to be. Remember, you don’t necessarily have to remain true to life here. It is role-play after-all, so feel free to be adventurous, and do things you may not normally do. You could even take it a step further, and create a character for yourself!
As your role-play evolves, if you’re the type of person who enjoys erotica, sexual short stories or letters, than you may find yourself becoming aroused. If you’re NOT the type who gets turned on by simply reading (you need visuals), than you may not find this type of role-play sexually exciting at all. Remember, I did say before, that this form of play might not be for everyone.
The role-play will be a series of going back and forth with one another. Don’t be afraid to let your partner know if you’re becoming aroused at all during the play, as this could help them become turned on even more. It’s always exciting to know that what you’re doing (even when its just typing out a story) is making your partner wet or hard, especially if they are doing this with while at work. (Defiantly adds that sense of naughtiness!!). For example…
Another tip that can be helpful is to not worry about being politically correct in your role-play. Don’t be afraid to use slang and dirty talk in your play, anything you know your partner may find hot. In my past experience with role-play, I’ve found that it can often add to the overall thrill. For example…
… *He wraps his lips around her hard nipple and begins to suck firmly, while the fingers on his free hand begin to slowly trail down her spine, making her shiver. His throbbing cock twitches against her inner thigh, as he pulls her closer to him, holding her in his strong arms, so happy that she decided to surprise him like this. After a few moments, he leaves her nipple, and slowly trails his tongue up her collar bone to her neck, leaning up and placing hot kisses along her neckline, while his free hand moves down over her hips, to move between her thighs, pressing his fingertips against her hot, wet pussy and teasing her clit, as his lips rest against her ear, breathing hot and whispers* “You’re so fuckin’ hot right now.. and so wet! …Mmmmm.. I just want to bend you over my desk and fuck you hard!”…
The main thing to remember with online role-play is to have fun with it. You’re not physically in front of each other, so your feel free to leave your inhibitions behind. Try things you’ve been curious about but never really knew if you’d like. Through role-play, you may find they excite you more than you originally thought, and you’d like to try them for real! Sexual online role-play can be a real eye-opener when learning about your partner, and even yourself!
