To Spit or To Swallow? – The Eternal Battle

What makes a good blowjob a GREAT one often comes down to the final moments – that rush of undeniable pleasure that surges to the surface and gushes out with the force of a small nuclear explosion… or at least that’s how the men out there will lead you to believe. But in all honestly, what can turn a good blowjob into a fantastic one aren’t the techniques (although, that can be VERY important mind you!), but what is done in those final moments right before the orgasm, during and after.

It has long been known that swallowing your man’s “white russian” is an erotic turn on for the guy on the receiving end of the blowjob. There is just something extremely intimate in the act of swallowing, and I highly doubt you will find a man out there who won’t agree. But for those performing the blowjob, the eternal battle has been what category they may fall under. There are three distinct categories: “The Swallower”, “The Spitter” and the ‘Duck & Avoid”

The Swallower is self-explanatory – this individual will take the blowjob as far as it could go and after the man reaches his happy place, will physically swallow down what is produced by said blowjob including the pre-cum, and semen. The Spitter will carefully hold the seamen in their mouth, often against their cheek to avoid the tongue and its taste buds, and once their man has finished will spit what is in their mouth into a tissue, or dispose of it in a similar manner.

The “Duck & Avoid” is a unique group who rely on the man who give them a signal of approaching orgasm. They quickly remove themselves away from the love wand, and either finish the blowjob by hand, or if they have perfected their “Duck & Avoid” they will rise away moments before the spurting load erupts, thus coating the guy in his own sticky mess.

And so the eternal battle has raged on for as long as we can remember. Every man wants his partner to swallow (find one who doesn’t – I dare you!), but it all comes down to a personal choice to the one performing the act, and respecting what that choice might be. But in the same breath, it does go both ways, sex after all is a game of give and take.

To the Swallowers out there – kudos to you! You do it because you enjoy it. Maybe it’s the unique taste (which keep in mind does vary from man to man, diet to diet), love how it turns your man on, or simply enjoys the sense of intimacy it eludes in the end.

For the Spitters and Avoiders, I do offer a word of advice – Try it. As I mentioned before, sex is a game of give and take. If you want your partner to try something new on you that you enjoy, than you have to be willing to do the same in return, its just how things should work in my opinion anyway, but I will offer a few “tricks of the trade” for the swallow -testers out there…

Until you are sure you will like or at least tolerate the unique taste of your partner, pay close attention to the signs they are about to reach their happy place. A tightening of the balls, and a gasp, grunt or groan just before are telltale signs it’s seconds away. Place the head tight against your inside cheek as far back as you find comfortable. Be VERY careful not to bite down with your jaw teeth!. This placement of the “special unit” in your mouth will allow you to avoid the taste buds on your tongue. As your partner begins to unload so to speak, let it pool against your cheek, and swallow it all down in one gulp once your partner is finished. I have personally used this technique in the past when I wasn’t particularly a fan of a partner’s taste.

Use flavored gels and creams to mask the taste – you can pick these up at any sex shop. Prior to beginning the blowjob, give your partners manly bits a good coating of the gel or cream (be sure to choose something you REALLY enjoy the flavor of – strawberry, cinnamon and chocolate mint are often popular). This will make your partner taste yummy to those infamous taste buds, and can often help mask the flavor in the end. The taste will also help you to relax, and not think so much on the impending doom that your mind thinks is about to come. Inside your mind will think “Mmm, this tastes good, maybe a I should have a banana split later”. It’s a kind-of distraction for your mind and tongue.

The main thing is to have fun and don’t be afraid to try new things – it keeps things exciting between the sheets… or wherever you choose to have your fun!