Homophobia is an “irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals.”
So are guys really homophobic, or are they just shy about their anal cavities? What goes on in the mind of a guy that makes them think they are less macho if they are touched or perceived in certain way?
I believe that, for most guys, the phobia is a confused, a state of mind rather than a fear or adversity of male genitalia.
Let me explain where I’m coming from – Now it’s common knowledge that males have stronger orgasms and harder erections when their prostates are stimulated, and the best way to do so is by anally inserting a finger or a small dildo; removing it as the guy orgasms. Now, if this brings such pleasure, why are some guys afraid when a woman inserts a finger in the guys anal cavity as they are receiving a blow job? That does not make them less of a man, or gay. It’s just a way to get more pleasure than they are used to.
Now my biggest dilemma is those guys that I personally know that are very homophobic, yet, they love it when the woman “toss the salad” while they are receiving oral pleasure. ummm, isn’t that a double standard?
So what makes the guy feel homophobic?
ahhhhh. .I see. At the bar or out with their friends, they have to act macho and very male, because well, they are males. They need to show their superiority to the rest of the world. Their personality and reputation must not be damaged. They also must behave in a certain way when they are out with their better half. However once the clothes come off, and the candles come on; pretty much anything goes. Here, in the bedroom, they won’t mind getting a finger or maybe a toy or even a tongue inserted into them, as long as they can ‘get off’.
Me personality? Oh you don’t really want to go there do you? Ok, if you must know, I’m as homophobic as they come. I don’t like any foreign objects anywhere near the vicinity of my anal cavity. Not only will it turn me off, but I will literally freak out and jump. I was getting a very hot blow job once when a girl just went and stuck her damn finger inside my butthole right before I was going to cum, and I have never lost an erection so fast in my life. Not only that, but I didn’t get to cum either.
I wouldn’t say that it was the element of surprise that freaked me out, because I would have felt the same way if we had planned it out and she used lube. It was just the finger in ‘there’ that freaked me out.
So does that make me homophobic? I believe that term refers to neither a true phobia nor any fear of gay sexuality. I think it’s all in our minds, and we as logical human beings must give it a name and somehow recognize it as a “sickness” when there really isn’t a sickness.
Of course this article is just my opinion and some questions/answers I go by. The actual studies on “Homophobia” are numerous. The list is too long to mention them all here, but for serious discussions, you can google the word “Homophobia” or just follow the link below to arrive at your own conclusion on what you think what homophobia really is:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&safe=off&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla%3Aen-US%3Aofficial&hs=T9z&num=50&q=Homophobia&btnG=Search
