Have you ever contemplated having an affair? Have you ever wondered what if you could cross that line?
Many people fantasize about being with another partner, it’s normal in any relationship to wonder “what if”. Going that extra step and turning fantasy into reality takes a special kind of personality.
Having an affair means being able to look at your partner each day knowing that you have violated a trust. Having an affair means you have to deal with a variety of emotions that could include guilt and fear. Would you be able to cope with knowing that someone might find out your little secret?
Being faithful is hard work. Just look at the statistics. Many more people are being unfaithful and more marriages are ending in divorce than ever before.
But what drives someone to have an affair?
Is it the excitement of feeling someone different touch you? Caress you? Kiss you?
Being intimate with someone else outside of a relationship is an adrenaline rush. There’s no denying that very moment when there’s penetration, hearing the gasp of your partner, the gentle squeezing and the release at climax can be addictive. It is a spark that quite often has been missing from the long-term relationship.
Having an affair may have its merits but throwing caution to the wind may be best suited for fantasy. Keep your relationship fresh with role play, surprises and an willingness to explore. Be creative and use some toys, push your limits and then beyond
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From your writing it is apparent that you are against affairs. Having been involved in several affairs over the years I would have to agree with you about being faithful is hard work, along withbeing unfaithful. There are many factors involved in why someone has an affair, not just some wild fantasy that someone then starts to live out, this is a very simplistic view of how they start. Often there are more complicated and involved processing that leads to the affair starting.
Open relationships are the best way to go, yes the role plays and surprises may be able to keep the relationship fun and interesting.
There are many more reasons why people get into affairs, there are so many emotional reasons, the physical touching, feeling needed, wanted, having someone show that special interest in you, all leading to filling a small gap in ones overall well being.
With caution, an affair can be something that makes the relationship grow stronger. Of course it can also destroy a relationship just as easily. I have experienced both and from each side. The hurt that is invloved can be very damaging and this is the worst part of having an affair. It can on the otherhand strengthen the relationships, making them stronger and more fun.
Careful consideration for all involved, including family and children must be thought about before venturing into this difficult area of human relationships.