I had a very interesting conversation with a good friend of mine the other day, and it has spurred some thoughts in my head that I want to share with you. I fully expect this to create some debate, but isn’t a little debate a good thing?
First off I’m going to create a little scenario for you. A friend decides to help out another friend by performing a blowjob on him. There is no emotional connection, no touching, fondling or otherwise. It is simply the action of the mouth on the shaft moving up and down. Yes, it is a blowjob, but could it also be simply one friend assisting the masturbation of another? Think about it.
This idea could be pushed even further of course. Say the friend of the man didn’t even touch the head or the shaft, simply sat nearby while he jerked off, and then came in the mouth of his friend. Does that fall under the family of the blowjob? What if the friend licked the head, while he stroked himself, but did nothing else. Again, does this fall into the same category of a blowjob? Interesting no?
Could this type of thing be placed in a similar category as mutual masturbation? In the scenario I outlined above, the only individual getting any sexual relief is the friend receiving the blowjob, and that blowjob it’s a very technical blowjob, with no other play what so ever.
For those who may not know, mutual masturbation is when two partners masturbate in front of each other. They do not touch one another at all, and simply turn each other on by watching and hearing each other. This form of sexual play is often not thought of as cheating when performed outside of a relationship due to the fact there is no physical contact with the other person.
Think of the whole concept of the blowjob as a masturbation aid in reverse. If a woman is fingering herself, while someone is sucking her tits, would that not be aiding in masturbation?
