You know, it’s amazing that being around professional porn starts all the time, I hear the same complain about anal sex from all of them, and it’s the same story even when they first started doing it and are better at it now. Most guys really have no clue what they are doing when it comes to anal sex and it hurts the girls to the point that they don’t ever wan to try it again. I only have one thing to say: “GUYS DON’T RAM IT IN!!!! IT HURTS!!!!! That’s it, I’m done. Oh no wait, I have a full article to write on this issue. Ok, then follow me, and print this guide if you need to.
This is all about anal sex from a male’s perspective; it’s not all it’s cracked up to be, uh, no pun intended, but you will be doing it more often if you follow these tips:
-No Ramming Please
First thing first guys, PLEASE don’t ram it in. You need to understand that the anal cavity is not self-lubricating like the vagina is. Also, it is much tighter, so you need to be gentle when it comes to anal sex.
-Make Sure The Girl is Relaxed
You need to make sure the girl is relaxed. If she’s not, then please put it off for another time. If the girl is nervous, then she’s going to clamp up as soon as she feels the tip of your head touch the cavity. If she’s nervous, trust me, its not going to be a good experience for neither of you
-Use The Right Lubrication
Ok, this one is the biggie one, and for the first time I will share an industry secret that not everybody is privy to. When it comes to lube, there are many kinds. However the most recommended for anal sex is a silicone based lube because it lasts longer than water-soluble lubes, and it’s very slippery, however it’s a bit of a pain to clean. So what’s the secret? Vitamin E. HUH? Are you serious? Yup. Vitamin E is the lube of choice for many reasons. The anal cavity, just as the vagina and the urethra is very sensitive. So using vitamin E as a lubricant not only works great, but you also lower the risk of the girl getting any infection or skin irritation from the friction. Yeah I know, Vitamin E is a pain in to clean up, but what would you prefer, spending a few extra minutes cleaning up your privates, which can be fun if you are creative or hearing your girlfriend telling you that it was fun and to do it more often? Yeah, that’s what I thought.
-Point of insertion
So here you are. You have followed the steps above, and now you are all excited that you finally got your girlfriend to say yes to giving you the green light. As your missile is approaching base still keep in mind, NO RAMMING!!!
You need to make the girl aware of your actions, so let her know what you are doing. Tell her that you are going to put the head of your penis on her opening, and do just that. Rest your engorged head at the opening without inserting. Make sure to pause and ask her if she’s ok. When she gives you the ok, tell her that you are going to put the head in, and do JUST THAT. Very slowly insert just the head of the penis. Why? Here’s why. Once the girl has the head inside of her, the rest is gravy. It will be easier for her to handle the rest. Little by little push it in and listen to hear moans. Hopefully by now you should know when your girlfriend is moaning in pleasure or pain. If you don’t know her that well, then make sure she tells you she feels pain or discomfort.
***Important Tip: Don’t try to be a porn star and take your missile in and out of her cavity. Do an in an out motion ensuring that it does not come out of her cavity. Re-entry is actually more painful than the in and out motion, cause the anal cavity will re-close with her clenching once you take it out. So just leave it in****
That’s all there is to it. Where you shoot your load is up to the both of you, I’m not getting involved in that. I got you this far, now you are on your own.
So to recap, what have we learned kiddies?
- Don’t ram it in
- Make sure the girl is relaxed
- Use the appropriate lubrication type
- What to do during the insertion
If you follow these tips, I’m sure you’ll be having as much anal sex as…as…. the next guy?. Not me though. I have been cursed with a very girth-y penis and even experienced girls don’t want me up their bum… such a curse. LOL
