She smiled back and again sipped her wine slowly, her dark green eyes never leaving his. He could feel a bulge in his slacks growing just by her stare. ‘Such beautiful eyes’, He thought. ‘And her body, My God, its so sleek and sexy in that black dress’. He felt his body grow hot again as she moved up from her chair and took their plates from the table, and placed them on the counter. He couldn’t help but just stare at her firm ass. So soft and round yet firm. He thought of running his hands along it slowly followed by his tongue. At that moment she bent over to pick up a dropped knife and he gasped loudly. Her dress road up slightly to reveal she had no panties on, her warm pussy staring at him. She was shaved and she looked wet. His mouth dropped and his cock became fully erect.

She turned and smiled. Approached him slowly, her hips swaying she took his hands in hers and pulled him up from the chair. She looked into his eyes and caressed his face slowly. Leaning in, she placed soft kisses along his neck and slowly to his ear. His eyes closed and pulled her closer to him, body to body, tightly and he knew she felt his hardness against her hip.

She gasped at his hard cock, and her hand moving on its own slide down to cup his manhood over his slacks and grind. He moaned softly and began to kiss her lips hard and deep, his own hand cupping her breasts and ran his thumbs over her already hard nipples. His hips moved against her hand and he whispered to her ear. ‘God, I want you’

She smiled wide, took his hand and began to lead him into the bedroom. Opening the door they entered a large room with a king size bed covered in satin. She closed the door and instantly began kissing him deeply. His arms wrapped around her, pulling her close again as his hips began to grind against hers, she responded as well by grinding back. He moaned softly and began to slowly pull the straps of her dress off her shoulders, kissing her flesh softly.

Her body arched toward him and she began to slowly undo the buttons of his shirt, pushing it off his shoulders and onto the floor. Her lips found his shoulder and kissed softly down his chest. Her tongue trailed along his nipples and he gasped again and roughly pulled her closer. His hands trailed down her back, his nails lightly scraping as she moaned again.

She pushed him back onto the bed, reached back and unzipped her dress. He lay there and watched in awe as the dress fell away to reveal a black lace teddy, guarder belt and stocking. He closed his eyes and groaned loudly and his cock throbbed inside his slacks.

She came closer and unzipped his slacks, and pulled off his boxers, letting his cock spring loose from its cage. She slowly, slightly began to stroke him. He threw his head back and moaned loudly. She then stopped and he looked at her, surprised and she winked and replied. ‘Don’t worry, I have plans for you’

He smiled and laid back, hands over his head as she stepped away for a second. He closed his eyes and imagined what this sex goddess could have in store for him. Suddenly he felt his hands being locked together. He opened his eyes to find her there again, locking his hands in handcuffs. But these weren’t the ordinary handcuffs. They were chain cuffs, bound together by linked chain so his arms could move more than regular cuffs. He stared at her for a moment, but his fears died away when he saw that special look in her eyes of affection and lust.

She straddled his hips and he noticed the teddy was crotch-less. He moaned again and pulled at the cuffs, trying to loosen them but to no avail. His eyes locked on her body as she straddled him and began to grind down against him slowly. His cock was so hard and his body so hot as she moved against him. He could feel her wetness and heat against him. She leaned down and licked his neck again, grinding her pussy against him as he struggled at the cuffs.

To Be Continued – February 26th

For many people sex and emotion go hand in hand, and you can’t have one without the other. The act of sex for the majority of people can begin innocent enough, but soon enough can bring an intense connection to their partner, which then builds into an emotional connection. This is completely normal. But there are some individuals with a personality that enables them to separate the two, allowing them to have continued sexual relations with someone without creating an emotional connection.

These individuals can easily disconnect themselves, and be able to have sex without creating the emotional connection that often comes with it. It takes a mentally strong person to become successful in this, and even then its not 100%.

Are these types of people hard or emotionally disconnected? Not at all, it can often be the opposite. Individuals who are able to emotionally detach themselves from sex can often be some of the most giving and loving people you’ve ever met. They have just gained the ability over time to be able to shut off that mental aspect of their brain before, during and after sexual actions that for the average person would kick in and begin to ‘feel something. Of course long exposure with the same partner may begin to wear down even the most savy of personality.

It is these types of people who can often have a very successful ‘friends with benefits’ relationship, as they are able to understand that sex is sex, and friendship is friendship, and not to mix the two.

Do you think you can train yourself to be able to choose who you emotionally connect with and who you detach yourself from?

First of all, let’s get the technical side of things put to bed. For those who may have been living under a rock for most of their adult life, uncircumcised is when the foreskin is still attached and covers the head of the penis. The foreskin is then rolled back, exposing the head during sex.  A circumcised penis is well… the opposite. The foreskin has been surgurically removed and the head is exposed to the elements 24-7.

Now let’s talk about an uncircumcised penis. The foreskin covering the head, is great for the man involved during sex as it makes the head super sensitive, due to the fact it hasn’t been exposed to things such as rubbing fabrics during daily routines. Other than this, and perhaps some religious beliefs, does the foreskin really provide any other benefits other than protection?  For an uncircumcised man, hygiene is super important, as you must roll back the foreskin and be sure to clean SUPER well to prevent bacteria growth and infection. But look at it from a woman’s point of view for a moment (which is the point of this article – sorry fellas)

My girlfriend for one has some very strong opinions on an uncircumcised penis – and I’m going to share her point of view with you now. Her biggest pet peeve with the “capped” ones is hygiene. Guys, if you don’t scrub your junk REALLY well, you’re going to leave things hiding behind that us ladies don’t want to find. Surprises are good, but not when you are going down there. First up, if you don’t clean well, the first turn off will be the smell. Everybody sweats, but with the foreskin still attached, it’s going to sweat more. Add that to the fact that you do urinate, and I’m sure that after giving it a ‘few shakes’, the fact that some urine is going to drip down the foreskin and then linger. Common ladies, you and I both know that unique smell of sweat and piss that at some points we’ve ALL encountered at some point. NUMBER ONE TURN OFF.

Number two on the list, and maybe some men out there can give us ladies some insight on this. WHY WHY WHY, is there ALWAYS lint hiding up inside there?? I’m serious here, and always hiding up in under the rim of the head. How in the bloody hell does it get there when you have something hanging and protecting the head of the dick??? Someone, ANYONE please! Give us ladies some answers here! You roll back the foreskin, and HELLO, you have to pick little balls of yarn from under the head or god forbid if you missed it and then have to try and pick them off the back of your tongue. UGH All I want to know is how it gets there, or is this one of life’s secrets like how they get the caramilk in the caramilk bar?

Now for the circumcised men – those who although the head might be desensitized a bit, have none of the issues of the uncircumcised penis men do. True, hygiene is obviously an important issue, as are the issues of smell, urine and bacteria, but being circumcised, there is nothing to pull back, nothing to hide unwanted balls of yarn or other such surprises. But it all comes down to personal preference. Some women claim they can feel the different inside between a circumcised and uncircumcised – and other women still have a preference when performing oral sex, which I understand totally. When giving head to an uncircumcised man the foreskin will move as your mouth does. This may feel strange to some women, while others won’t really notice it – just another thing to add to the overall debate

So ladies, what are your personal preferences? Guys, are you circumcised or uncircumcised, let’s get a little poll happening here – completely unscientific of course.. *laughs*

He climbed out of the car, gently closing the door behind him. He’d parked the van on the side of the road instead of the driveway, as he wanted to surprise her with his visit. Heading up to the house, he quietly opened the door and stepped inside.

Only moments before, his mother had been in the kitchen putting the last of the cleaned dinner plates away from lunch. After tidying up, she left the kitchen and headed into the living room, taking a seat on the plush couch. Reaching for the remote on the coffee table, she grabbed a magazine from the floor and thought she’d get a little reading in as she watched for her favourite daytime show to come on.  Flicking on the remote, suddenly the living room was filled with the sounds of a woman moaning in pleasure. Her eyes looked up at the TV quickly to the screen filled with a beautiful woman, with large tits and a round ass getting it pounded over and over with a large dildo.

She suddenly realized that the porn DVD that was on last night had been left playing while the TV was off. She reached for the DVD remote to turn it off, but paused for a moment, watching the scene play out, her eyes focused on the TV, as the dildo moved in and out of the woman’s ass with ease, her moans of rapture coming from the speakers. Suddenly she found her own voice mingling with that of the woman on the video, as she softly gasped, watching the porn and finding herself becoming turned on, her nipples growing hard under her green blouse, as she squirmed on the couch.

She crossed her legs, and gave her pussy a squeeze with her inner muscles, and let out a soft sigh, feeling herself growing wet inside. She reached up and brushed her finger tips along her hard nipples overtop her blouse. They were rock hard, and could easily be seen poking through the thin fabric of her blouse. With her thumb and forefinger, she pinches one firmly and gives it a soft tug, biting her lower lip as it sends a tingle down her spine. She uncrossed her legs, and squirmed a little as the scene on the TV changes, and the dildo is replaced with a hard, throbbing cock, and the woman on the screen begins to get fucked in the ass doggy style.

She moans softly in seeing this and unbuttoned the top of her jeans and slipped a hand down inside. Her fingertips softly felt along her smooth slit, her full lips part as her tongue slips out to moisten her lips. Pulling her hand free, she reaches and begins to unbutton and slip her blouse down over her smooth shoulders, knowing that no one would be home anytime soon. She rises from the couch and stands, letting the blouse slip off her arms and onto the floor. She slips her fingers into the waist of her jeans and slides them over her hips and ass, taking her panties with them, exposing her firm, round ass, as she stepped from her clothing. Sitting back down onto the couch, she separated her legs, sliding a hand down her stomach and between her thighs, softly rubbing her pussy lips with her soft fingers, a moan escaping her lips. It was this time, when her son walked down the hall, and spotted her on the couch.

His deep blue eyes watch her in amazement, as he stood just out of view. He couldn’t believe what he was seeing, and beyond that, he couldn’t believe his reaction to it, finding himself extremely turned on. His cock twitched suddenly and grew hard in his jeans, and he found himself unable to pull away his gaze. He knew he shouldn’t be watching this, that he should make a noise or something to announce himself, but he couldn’t help it- this was hot beyond belief!

To Be Continued January 1st

This type of masturbation can be very erotic and exciting for some, as you are getting stimulated visually by watching the other persons actions, and being stimulated by sound, as you can hear the person’s sounds of excitement – their pants, and moans… hmmm.. yeahhhh.. it can be very interesting indeed.

I find that a lot of men love to watch a woman please her own body. For some, it’s a sign of a confidant woman, one who knows her body, how to please it sexually and can share that with someone is an incredible turn on. In the same breath, there are women who also enjoy watching a man stroke himself to orgasm. Watching the cum explode and spurt from the head of his manhood can be a very sexy and hot as hell experience for them to watch. In both cases, watching a member of the opposite sex (of for some even the same sex) bring themselves to orgasm will often boost their own excitement, bringing them over the edge themselves to reach their own very very happy place!

Mutual masturbation is a form of play without the worry. There is no fear of contracting an sexually transmitted disease, no fear of an unwanted pregnancy, no fear of not measuring up and being able to please your partner. You are your own partner. You can take this one step further, and raise the argument that mutual masturbation is not a form of cheating as there are no touching involved with the other individual. You are simply both in the same room with one another, and just happen to be watching them masturbate while you do the same. Some could even say this is no different than watching porn and getting yourself off. Some will agree. Others won’t. It’s the nature of the beast.

Whatever way you slice it, mutual masturbation can be a lot more fun that simply doing it yourself. It gives you additional stimulators, which can add to your own excitement. If you have never experienced mutual masturbation, perhaps it’s something you’d like to experiment with, with your partner. If you don’t have a partner (or a special friend), there are methods as well.

Mutual masturbation is exactly what you do when it comes to cyber sex. Introduce a web cam where you can see each other, and perhaps even a mic, and there you have it. You can see and hear each other, but there will be no touching what so ever. The perfect plan if physical contact sex is not on your agenda!

Infidelity is defined as: “sexual unfaithfulness to one’s husband, wife, or lover”. Sexual unfaithfulness – that could be a broad range of things, so let’s take it a step further.

Sexual is defined as:

1. Of, relating to, involving, or characteristic of sex, sexuality, the sexes, or the sex organs and their functions.

2. Implying or symbolizing erotic desires or activity.

3. Relating to, produced by, or involving reproduction characterized by the union of male and female gametes:

Well that really doesn’t make the whole thing any easier now does it? The whole debate all comes down to individual beliefs and what each individual would consider as infidelity. For some, infidelity might include everything sexual, physical, via the phone or even the Internet. So if this is the case, for these people, is watching porn even considered cheating.

For others, infidelity is anything sexual in a physical manner. This includes sexual penetration, all forms of oral sex, fondling, kissing etc with anyone other than your partner. There are others still who believe that you don’t have to become physical with someone for it to be infidelity. Emotional cheating is on the rise with the popularity of the Internet.

What is Emotional cheating? It layman’s terms, it’s when you come emotionally connected to someone other than your partner. You may really enjoy spending time with them, talking to them and sharing your thoughts and concerns with them. You enjoy being with them so much that you would rather spend your free time with them than your partner.

So now I go back to the question I posed at the beginning. If you are online, flirting and playing around sexually with someone, is this cheating? There is no physical contact, so that doesn’t play a role in the question. It all comes down to the emotional cheating aspect of infidelity.

Perhaps the two individuals don’t know each other beyond the Internet, and have no risk of ever meeting each other face to face, but feel a strong connection to one another. Perhaps the two individuals are friends and only play online for sexual release, and have no emotional connection to one another beyond that of regular friendship. Perhaps even still, the individuals are complete strangers from a random chat room, who both felt a little horny at the same time.

What could cause problems in a relationship is if one partner believes that online flirting and role-play IS cheating while the other believes it to be harmless fun, and being no more harmful than watching porn or reading erotica.

But the question remains, is it really harmful if you are flirting or playing online with someone if your partner doesn’t know about it? There are no performs or colognes to be smelled on you by your partner. No lies to make up about where you’ve been for the past few hours. No risks of STD’s or unwanted pregnancies. In the same breath, there has to be taken into consideration your partner’s feelings on the issue. Would they be hurt to learn you’ve been doing this? Would they care since there was no physical contact?

So as all things in the exciting, thrilling, wonderful and sometimes confusing as hell world of sex, what you thought was a cut and dry Yes or No answer, can easily turn into something with almost a life of its own. Just remember, that whatever you choose, in a relationship there is always someone else to consider beside yourself. .

First off I’m going to create a little scenario for you. A friend decides to help out another friend by performing a blowjob on him. There is no emotional connection, no touching, fondling or otherwise. It is simply the action of the mouth on the shaft moving up and down. Yes, it is a blowjob, but could it also be simply one friend assisting the masturbation of another? Think about it.

This idea could be pushed even further of course. Say the friend of the man didn’t even touch the head or the shaft, simply sat nearby while he jerked off, and then came in the mouth of his friend. Does that fall under the family of the blowjob? What if the friend licked the head, while he stroked himself, but did nothing else. Again, does this fall into the same category of a blowjob? Interesting no?

Could this type of thing be placed in a similar category as mutual masturbation? In the scenario I outlined above, the only individual getting any sexual relief is the friend receiving the blowjob, and that blowjob it’s a very technical blowjob, with no other play what so ever.

For those who may not know, mutual masturbation is when two partners masturbate in front of each other. They do not touch one another at all, and simply turn each other on by watching and hearing each other. This form of sexual play is often not thought of as cheating when performed outside of a relationship due to the fact there is no physical contact with the other person.

Think of the whole concept of the blowjob as a masturbation aid in reverse. If a woman is fingering herself, while someone is sucking her tits, would that not be aiding in masturbation?

He grabbed her and pulled her back hard against his cock, grinding his hips against her ass. She gasped and pulled her lips away from the girl’s. She turned back and smiled at him over her shoulder, reached down and lifted her skirt up, revealing a black thong. She pushed her finger into one of the legs and pulled the thong to one side, exposing her hot, wet, shaven pussy to him. Pulling the other girl close to her, she torn off her shirt and began to suck the girl’s nipples through her bra. At the same time, she pushed back against his cock, sliding the head up and down her dripping slit, driving hi wild with want.

He grabbed her hips hard and thrusted forward, driving his throbbing, rock hard cock deep into her tight, little pussy, causing her to bite down on the nipple she was sucking, which in turn drove the girl crazy, her head thrashing from side to side. He released one hand from her hip and reached down, unzipping the unknown girl’s jeans, slide his hand down her panties and began to wiggle his index finger against her clit; she was so wet it coated his finger. He didn’t’ wait any longer and thrusted two fingers inside her. She moaned out hard and loud, causing more people to stop and look.

Leaning forward, he buried his face against eh back of his friend’s neck as he thrusted his cock in and out of her hot pussy. She was moaning more and more, arching her body back towards him. She then lifted herself away from the girl’s breasts and kissed her deeply again, muffling their moans. But it was too late, the crowd had gathered, and many continue to watch once they realized what was going on, most very turned on.

Grunting deep, he thrusted himself deeper into her dripping pussy that held tight to his cock. As he fucked his best friend, he fingered the new girl, hard and fast, keeping the same pace as his cock. All awhile, the two women kissed and fondled each other, their hands roaming each other’s body. He heard a voice from the crowd call out for hi to fuck her harder, and that’s just what he did, his hips slapping her ass, as he slammed into her faster and faster, causing her to forget her hot kiss and moan with desire.

The other girl then shuddered and her legs buckled, as she came hard onto his fingers. He removed them and brought them straight to his lips, licking and tasting her slowly. His friend then leaned back and grabbed his fingers, taking them into her own mouth, sucking them deeply, and teasing the girl as he fucked her harder. This was driving them both wild.

He didn’t see the third party move, but suddenly felt her warm tongue caress his balls. Grunting deeply, his hands moved to grab hold of his friend’s hips again, nails digging into the flesh as he fucked harder, moaning as he felt her pussy clutch down tighter.

Between the licking of his balls, the tight pussy he fucked and the dozens of eyes that watched them, he was on the edge. So close he was when he spotted another couple across the food court in the opposite exit, pushed against the wall, fucking, just as they were. He gasped hard at this and threw his head back hard against the brick wall. His balls tightened and his cock began to twitch hard, spurting thick hot cum, filling his friend’s pussy.

Feeling him shudder behind her, she pushed her body back, driving him deeper still, hitting her G-spot suddenly. Her eyes widened as she screamed hard, it echoing through the entire food court. Her own cum coating his throbbing cock.

After a few moments, and their breathing began to return to normal, they looked at each other and smiled. The crowd began to go back to their shopping and the other girl had disappeared as if she never existed. She moved forward and his cock fell free from her pussy. Grinning, she pushed her skirt back down, as he re-zipped himself.

Reaching into her handbag on the floor, she quickly checked her face, re-applied a little lipstick and tuned to him. Curling her arm around his own, they turned and opened the emergency exit door, causing the alarm to sound, and left the mall.

These days it seems it’s the polar opposite, and I have come to question is there anything that’s considered Taboo anymore? With porn becoming more mainstream in the late 1990s, it opened the erotic doors for many people, allowing them to indulge in what was previously considered taboo fantasy, and certain sexual subjects, such as anal sex, began to find its own niche not just in the adult industry, but for everyday folk in the privacy of their own bedrooms.

As the Internet gained popularity it not just opened the erotic doors for some people, but literally blew them off the hinges. Suddenly the world of the taboo is available at the click of a mouse, and thus in many ways desensitizing us from what was previously considered to be out of the norm in the ways of sex. Unexpectedly to some, what they may have previously considered to be dirty or an act they may have never considered before now has them curious. Even subjects such as 3-somes (either M/F/M or F/M/F), partner swapping, and even sex parties are now longer considered something you’d only see late at night on those “special” channels you had to pay extra for.

It’s the same with any topic, be exposed to it often enough, and your opinions change on said subject. But have we been over-exposed? I’m not saying that what’s happened is necessarily a bad thing, but if nothing is considered taboo anymore, what do we have left? What little secret fantasies can we keep to ourselves because we think others will consider us “not quite all there”, and being OK with that, because it was sexy, hot and the idea of it drove us wild!

If what we USE to consider Taboo is now the norm (or at least not AS frowned upon by society), where do we go from here? That is a question, I’m not really sure how I feel about. I mean, how much further can we really go when you think about it?  Words to ponder..

Once on the second floor, she turned and headed for the adult store called ‘Sexy Secrets’, pulling him along with her. He really hated it when she did that, she knew damn well he was easily aroused, but went with her without argument.

Once inside, his eyes wandered the store, spotting the many varieties of dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, videos, oils, crèmes, not to mention the sexy outfits. Quickly, he decided best to focus on one thing before he overloaded his imagination. He moved over to the videos and picked one up. The title was ‘public affair’, and he read the details on the back, which described couples adventures with public sex. Pulling his eyes away suddenly, he placed the movie back on the rack, turned and bolted for the door, his companion chasing after him, finally she caught up with him just outside the door.

He was blushing deeply, breathing hard and when she touched him, he pulled back as if touched with boiling water. She frowned and told him to go straight to hell, turned and began to walk away. Feeling incredible guilty for treating her like that, he grabbed her wrist and spun her around. Sighing, he then explained what happened in the store, telling her about the movie and how deep down, public sex has always excited him.

She couldn’t help but smile and he turned away, preparing for her to laugh at him, but to his surprise, she grabbed his hand and pulled him across the floor towards the food court. He assumed she suddenly got the munchies when he spotted where they were headed, but was shocked when she pulled him into the corner beside the service exit.

He opened his mouth to as what was up, when she placed a finger to his lips and smiled. He’d only seen that smile once before, when she was drunk and had shown up on his doorstep. That night, she’d tried to fuck him, but he refused to let it happen with her plastered. Either way, there she was looking at him like that again, her body moved closer until it touched his own, his arms moving around her softly, eyes full of question.

It was when she turned around and placed her ass back against his groin, grinding softly with a sway of her hips did he fully understand her purpose. He’d always been attracted to her; she stood 5’6”, long blonde hair and an ass tight enough to bounce a quarter on. He couldn’t help but softly groan as she swayed her ass back against his already hard cock.

He then felt her pull back and for an instant believed this to all be a joke or that she’d suddenly changed her mind. When he opened his eyes to look, he found her sinking to her knees before him, her hand caressing his groin as she unzipped his blue jeans. He’d dreamed about this moment for a very long time, and now it was about to actually happen. Not to mention it happening here in the mall, a public place; one of his fantasies. It was all just amazing.

Amazing was when her warm tongue finally touched the underside of his quivering cock, sending a shiver down his spine. The tip of her tongue teased its way up the underside, to the head, foreskin rolling up, as her tongue moved over the sensitive flesh. He gasped when she forcefully took the head fully into her mouth and sucked firm, causing him a sharp intake of breath.

It was then, that a young girl, in her late teens spotted them out of the corner of her eye. She smiled despite herself and began to approach, leaning against the wall, watching them with keen eyes. He looked up and spotted her, groaning as his eyes met her own. His cock grew even harder now as she continued to watch as he received the blowjob, feeling his friend’s warm lips wrapped around his cock, licking and sucking it so deep, she almost made it to the base.

He reached down and put his hand on his friend’s breast, squeezing and kneading it lightly in his head. Moaning, he felt the nipple grow hard under the fabric of her shirt, so he brushed his thumb across it firmly, causing her to moan, sending a vibration across the nerves of his cock. He gasped and groaned deeply, causing the unknown girl to approach. Pulling his other hand away from his friend’s hair, he reached out and placed it on the chest of the watching girl. Her nipples were already hard, and he pinched them, sending her into a shiver, followed by a moan.

It was the female voice that caught the attention of his friend, as she paused her sucking actions and looked up. She spotted the new girl, her eyes closed as her male friend pinched this girl’s nipple. Upon seeing this, she herself moaned and stood up.

Moving to the girl, she locked lips with her, kissing soft and slow at first, only to deepen it. The guy groaned deep as he watched his best friend french kiss this girl, spotting their tongues dance against each other. Hs free hand moves to his cock, wrapping around it and began to stroke slowly from the base to the tip.

To Be Continued October 9th