First of all, let’s get the technical side of things put to bed. For those who may have been living under a rock for most of their adult life, uncircumcised is when the foreskin is still attached and covers the head of the penis. The foreskin is then rolled back, exposing the head during sex.  A circumcised penis is well… the opposite. The foreskin has been surgurically removed and the head is exposed to the elements 24-7.

Now let’s talk about an uncircumcised penis. The foreskin covering the head, is great for the man involved during sex as it makes the head super sensitive, due to the fact it hasn’t been exposed to things such as rubbing fabrics during daily routines. Other than this, and perhaps some religious beliefs, does the foreskin really provide any other benefits other than protection?  For an uncircumcised man, hygiene is super important, as you must roll back the foreskin and be sure to clean SUPER well to prevent bacteria growth and infection. But look at it from a woman’s point of view for a moment (which is the point of this article – sorry fellas)

My girlfriend for one has some very strong opinions on an uncircumcised penis – and I’m going to share her point of view with you now. Her biggest pet peeve with the “capped” ones is hygiene. Guys, if you don’t scrub your junk REALLY well, you’re going to leave things hiding behind that us ladies don’t want to find. Surprises are good, but not when you are going down there. First up, if you don’t clean well, the first turn off will be the smell. Everybody sweats, but with the foreskin still attached, it’s going to sweat more. Add that to the fact that you do urinate, and I’m sure that after giving it a ‘few shakes’, the fact that some urine is going to drip down the foreskin and then linger. Common ladies, you and I both know that unique smell of sweat and piss that at some points we’ve ALL encountered at some point. NUMBER ONE TURN OFF.

Number two on the list, and maybe some men out there can give us ladies some insight on this. WHY WHY WHY, is there ALWAYS lint hiding up inside there?? I’m serious here, and always hiding up in under the rim of the head. How in the bloody hell does it get there when you have something hanging and protecting the head of the dick??? Someone, ANYONE please! Give us ladies some answers here! You roll back the foreskin, and HELLO, you have to pick little balls of yarn from under the head or god forbid if you missed it and then have to try and pick them off the back of your tongue. UGH All I want to know is how it gets there, or is this one of life’s secrets like how they get the caramilk in the caramilk bar?

Now for the circumcised men – those who although the head might be desensitized a bit, have none of the issues of the uncircumcised penis men do. True, hygiene is obviously an important issue, as are the issues of smell, urine and bacteria, but being circumcised, there is nothing to pull back, nothing to hide unwanted balls of yarn or other such surprises. But it all comes down to personal preference. Some women claim they can feel the different inside between a circumcised and uncircumcised – and other women still have a preference when performing oral sex, which I understand totally. When giving head to an uncircumcised man the foreskin will move as your mouth does. This may feel strange to some women, while others won’t really notice it – just another thing to add to the overall debate

So ladies, what are your personal preferences? Guys, are you circumcised or uncircumcised, let’s get a little poll happening here – completely unscientific of course.. *laughs*

First off I’m going to create a little scenario for you. A friend decides to help out another friend by performing a blowjob on him. There is no emotional connection, no touching, fondling or otherwise. It is simply the action of the mouth on the shaft moving up and down. Yes, it is a blowjob, but could it also be simply one friend assisting the masturbation of another? Think about it.

This idea could be pushed even further of course. Say the friend of the man didn’t even touch the head or the shaft, simply sat nearby while he jerked off, and then came in the mouth of his friend. Does that fall under the family of the blowjob? What if the friend licked the head, while he stroked himself, but did nothing else. Again, does this fall into the same category of a blowjob? Interesting no?

Could this type of thing be placed in a similar category as mutual masturbation? In the scenario I outlined above, the only individual getting any sexual relief is the friend receiving the blowjob, and that blowjob it’s a very technical blowjob, with no other play what so ever.

For those who may not know, mutual masturbation is when two partners masturbate in front of each other. They do not touch one another at all, and simply turn each other on by watching and hearing each other. This form of sexual play is often not thought of as cheating when performed outside of a relationship due to the fact there is no physical contact with the other person.

Think of the whole concept of the blowjob as a masturbation aid in reverse. If a woman is fingering herself, while someone is sucking her tits, would that not be aiding in masturbation?

Kneeling in front of him, she reached up and unzipped his jeans, her hands resting on his hips, she slowly slide his jeans down his legs, her hands caressing soft and slow. She reached behind, her fingers squeezing his ass firmly for a moment, before reaching up and slowly pulling his briefs down as well – Her fingertips moving oh so slowly.

She has him step out of his clothing and tosses them aside. Slowly, she ran the palms of her hands up the backs of his legs and around to his ass before leaning in, and breathing warm against the head of his shaft. Her cheek lightly brushed against his rock hard cock, as she kissed his left inner thigh. Her head turned, as she then kissed his right inner thigh, again her cheek lightly brushed his length. She looked up at him, making eye contact and smiled softly before slowly licking the head of his cock with the tip of her tongue.

She slowly wrapped her lips around the head fully, and flicked her tongue against it, before oh so slooowly moving her lips further down the head. She lifted his length up, and ran her tongue slowly down the underside and then down to his balls.

Her lips wrapped around his left ball, and gently sucked it into her mouth, massaging it lightly with her lips as she began to tongue it. Gently she lead him backwards to the couch, before his kneed began to weaken. Once there, she laid him back before moving back down to his balls, taking the right one into her mouth, sucking and tonguing it lightly. Her hand then wrapped around his shaft and she slowly began to stroke at the same time as her attention on his balls.

Very slowly, almost painfully slow, she licks back up the underside of his length, her tongue slipping over the head again to play with the drops of pre-cum that have gathered there, playing with it with the tip of her warm tongue.
Her lips then wrapped around the head fully as she glanced up into his eyes. Then without warning, her mouth moved down slowly, but fully; taking him into her mouth.

She moaned soft against his cock, creating a vibration against the sensitive skin. Her hands slide up to his hips again, then up over his stomach and chest, before she lightly dragged her nails back down, at the same time, her mouth moving down fully again, pausing and then slowly raising back up, with only the head left in her mouth. Suddenly back down harder and faster this time, without warning.

One of her hands then left his chest and moved between his legs resting on his balls. She began to squeeze and fondle lightly, her mouth moved up and down his length at the same time, fully tasting his pre-cum and loving it. Her tongue rolled around the head in a slow circle, while her mouth slid up and down his throbbing length faster now, slowly increasing the speed. Her mouth locked tight around him as he began to groan. She gave his balls another firm, but gentle squeeze as her mouth worked its magic, slowly and steadily increasing the rhythm. Her mouth bounced on the head of his cock twice, before taking him deep into her mouth and throat. Holding it for a moment, and then rising back up, again with just the head in her mouth, bouncing twice again.

She felt his body begin to tense up, her tongue lapped across the head faster then, back and forth – back and forth, before suddenly taking him deep into her mouth again, driving his cock as far as she could take him. Hearing him grunt, tense and arch, she tasted his hot, thick cum hit the back of her mouth as she swallowed him down. As he cock twitched and jerked with his orgasm, she continued to suck slowly, milking his shaft of every drop of his cum, before swallowing him fully, releasing his softening cock from her mouth and smiled up at him.

Putting a condom on with your mouth is an exciting way to spice up what can often be a boring part of sexual play. If more women (and men) used this method to put the condom on, I’m sure even more men out there would want to use a rubber on a more regular basis!

So without further a-due, here is that article.

How To Put a Condom on with Your Mouth
By Cory Silverberg – About.com

Learning to put a condom on with your mouth is both a great parlor trick and also a wonderful way to make condoms a highly desirable part of sex play. It can take several tries to get it right, and do it smoothly, and you need to be careful not to damage the condom, but you should have no problem getting your partner to let you practice.

Difficulty: N/A
Time Required: with practice not more than sixty seconds

Here’s How:

I recommend using a non-lubricated condom, or a flavored condom. Some lubricated condoms (and particularly ones with spermicidal lube) taste terrible

Open the condom carefully, watch for your teeth or sharp nails that could make small tears in the condom.

Put the condom in your mouth with the reservoir tip pointing toward your throat, and the ring of the condom in front of your teeth.

Press the reservoir tip with your tongue against the roof of your mouth you want to keep the air out of the tip as the condom is going on

At this point you could put a bit of lubricant on your partners penis for extra sensitivity.

Take one or both of your hands and wrap them around the base of your partner’s penis to keep it hard and straight. If your partner is uncircumcised, make sure his foreskin is pulled back.

Lower your head and put the condom on the tip of his penis. Make sure you have the reservoir tip squeezed with your tongue against the head of the penis.Use your lips to roll the condom down the shaft of the penis. You might very gently be using your teeth, but be careful to only use the front flat parts for guidance, not to bite down or tear the condom with your teeth.

Condoms have changed a lot in the past decade from the condoms on the market in my teen years. Back then condoms were all the same; latex (you had to hunt like a dog to find non-latex versions), the basic sizes, the decrease in sensitivity, and the general embarrassment of having to purchase them at the drug store.

Today condoms are the norm, and most preferred method of contraceptive and protection against STDs. Condoms now come with ridges, spirals, spikes and ticklers – all designed with the added pleasure for the receiver in mind. Improvements have also been made for the men wearing the condom as well. Condoms now come in regular, ultra sensitive, ultra thin, and a wide variety of sizes to suit any man’s personal need.

To mix things up a bit, condoms now also come in a wide selection of wild colors, scents and flavors. Colors such as red, green blue, neon colors, black and even glow in the dark, can often spice things up and add some humor between the sheets. Tasty flavors like strawberry, banana, vanilla and even mint make using a condom for oral sex so much better than years ago. No one enjoyed that unique, and forever lasting taste of latex in his or her mouth. Ah yes, the taste of latex, no matter what you drank, ate or gargled, you kept that disgusting, rancid flavor on your tongue for hours after the fact.

Since we’re on the topic of condoms, I have to bring up my favorite version of the condom – The Female Condom, or as I commonly refer to them as “The Wind Sock”. Seriously what woman in their right mind would actually use this as a method or protection? Have you seen these things? They’re about 6 ½ inches long that you pretty much un-roll and insert into your va-jj, with a ring that you can see from the outside holding the entire contraption in place. Oh baby, now that’s hot! Not to mention trying to remove it after the fact. Gravity is not your friend at this point in time, and I personally cannot see how you’re going to remove it without spilling everything all over the place. I can understand why it was created – the idea of having woman be more responsible for her own protection, but still, the overall design just bites!

The idea of women being more in control over their protection is something I highly agree with. Women should not expect men to be the only ones responsible for the purchase and carrying of condoms. In today’s world, its more important than every to have a condom with you for new sexual partners, and women have to keep this in mind. There is a product on the market now that I just love, and its whole purpose is to allow women a discreet way to carry their own condoms in a safe manner. “Just in Case” (www.justincaseinc.com) is a line of condom case compacts for women that come in a variety of stylish designs that look exactly like a simple makeup compact. They all come with a hidden compartment to store two condoms, and offer women a safe, effective and discreet way to carry their own condoms.

The condom has come a long way from its humble beginnings, and I’m sure it will continue to evolve and change as we move forward. The condom is the most effective method of birth control and to protect yourself from sexual transmitted diseases – so be sure to always carry one with you, because you never know when some fun will come your way!

Part of that might be due to the fact they have never experienced orgasm by way of the mouth – which mind you is not an easy thing to accomplish. For the majority of women, reaching orgasm is a chore in on itself, but add in a wet slobbering mouth on your va-jj that seeems to be not doing anything in particular in any reconizable order, and you’ve got disaster spelled all over it.

For some women the whole experience is not something they really enjoy, its a take it or leave it sitution, where it doesn’t really turn them off, but it doesn’t turn them on either. All women have experienced it at some point in their lives, where they’re laying there thinking to themselves “what is he doing?… is he going to come up for air?…man, I should get new shoes tomorrow”. Gentleman, if your lady doesn’t seem to be into it, its best just to gracefully retreat and try something different.

There are some techniques that just do NOT work, and ladies you will know exactly what I mean. First up, we have the slobber-monster, the man who seems to produce much more salavia than he needs in a week. Licking in pure randomness, creating one big slobbering mess down there and thinkin’ he’s the cats ass, while never really accomplishing a damn thing.

Another would be the suck and pullers. The men who decide to wrap their lips around the senstive, senstive, oh did I mention SENSTITIVE clit, and decide to suck on it like it you would a Mr. Freeze when trying to suck the last bit of melted goodness from the bottom. Guys, unless your lady is into pain, this is NOT something you should do. It will only create a lot of discomfort, and pain. Not to mention your lady friend will NEVER let you down there again… EV-ER.

Another turn off for ’some’ women is the fact that after being eaten out, their man then comes up and wants to kiss them. I say some women in this case due to the fact that not all women are turned off by their own taste – some rather enjoy it. But back to my train of throught. For some women, it’s a major turn off to have a guy coming towards them, with wet mouth and chin, pretty much dripping from their own slobber. I say their own slobber because keep in mind, that the group of women I’m talking about don’t really enjoy this sexual act, thus they wouldn’t get aroused and wet now would they?. But I’m rambling now, back to my point. For some women, this is simply another strike in the whole being eaten out fiasco.

Now keep in mind there are women out there who do enjoy this, but guys if you think its going to be like in the pornos, where the women are thrashing around the bed, arching and crying out your name, sorry, but you won’t find that in the majority of women. Do those women exist out there? I’m sure they do, but for arguments sake, I think you’ll find more who won’t respond that way than who will.

Now I’m not saying this is something that men should just give up on – on the contrary, keep at it. It just means that some men out there need to stop thinkin’ their Gods gift, and focus on the body language of their woman. And be sure you understand that body language. A squirm for example can easily be mistaken for pleasure when its a squirm of discomfort.

Another final word of advice gentlemen – don’t just dive in. I know that foreplay is often seen as a chore, but its something that is needed for the strange creature known as woman. Lots of soft kisses along the neck and earlobe. Warm caresses down her arms, sides and ass are all good things. Try dragging your fingertips down her spine and then over her ass, and down the backs of her legs, only to then move back up to her inner thighs. Soft, slow movements like that will get her in the mood, and turn her on. THEN perhaps going down on her could give you the reactions you are looking for. So keep tryin’ guys, remember, practice makes perfect!

It has long been known that swallowing your man’s “white russian” is an erotic turn on for the guy on the receiving end of the blowjob. There is just something extremely intimate in the act of swallowing, and I highly doubt you will find a man out there who won’t agree. But for those performing the blowjob, the eternal battle has been what category they may fall under. There are three distinct categories: “The Swallower”, “The Spitter” and the ‘Duck & Avoid”

The Swallower is self-explanatory – this individual will take the blowjob as far as it could go and after the man reaches his happy place, will physically swallow down what is produced by said blowjob including the pre-cum, and semen. The Spitter will carefully hold the seamen in their mouth, often against their cheek to avoid the tongue and its taste buds, and once their man has finished will spit what is in their mouth into a tissue, or dispose of it in a similar manner.

The “Duck & Avoid” is a unique group who rely on the man who give them a signal of approaching orgasm. They quickly remove themselves away from the love wand, and either finish the blowjob by hand, or if they have perfected their “Duck & Avoid” they will rise away moments before the spurting load erupts, thus coating the guy in his own sticky mess.

And so the eternal battle has raged on for as long as we can remember. Every man wants his partner to swallow (find one who doesn’t – I dare you!), but it all comes down to a personal choice to the one performing the act, and respecting what that choice might be. But in the same breath, it does go both ways, sex after all is a game of give and take.

To the Swallowers out there – kudos to you! You do it because you enjoy it. Maybe it’s the unique taste (which keep in mind does vary from man to man, diet to diet), love how it turns your man on, or simply enjoys the sense of intimacy it eludes in the end.

For the Spitters and Avoiders, I do offer a word of advice – Try it. As I mentioned before, sex is a game of give and take. If you want your partner to try something new on you that you enjoy, than you have to be willing to do the same in return, its just how things should work in my opinion anyway, but I will offer a few “tricks of the trade” for the swallow -testers out there…

Until you are sure you will like or at least tolerate the unique taste of your partner, pay close attention to the signs they are about to reach their happy place. A tightening of the balls, and a gasp, grunt or groan just before are telltale signs it’s seconds away. Place the head tight against your inside cheek as far back as you find comfortable. Be VERY careful not to bite down with your jaw teeth!. This placement of the “special unit” in your mouth will allow you to avoid the taste buds on your tongue. As your partner begins to unload so to speak, let it pool against your cheek, and swallow it all down in one gulp once your partner is finished. I have personally used this technique in the past when I wasn’t particularly a fan of a partner’s taste.

Use flavored gels and creams to mask the taste – you can pick these up at any sex shop. Prior to beginning the blowjob, give your partners manly bits a good coating of the gel or cream (be sure to choose something you REALLY enjoy the flavor of – strawberry, cinnamon and chocolate mint are often popular). This will make your partner taste yummy to those infamous taste buds, and can often help mask the flavor in the end. The taste will also help you to relax, and not think so much on the impending doom that your mind thinks is about to come. Inside your mind will think “Mmm, this tastes good, maybe a I should have a banana split later”. It’s a kind-of distraction for your mind and tongue.

The main thing is to have fun and don’t be afraid to try new things – it keeps things exciting between the sheets… or wherever you choose to have your fun!