What is special about the male g-spot?

For those men who have experienced an orgasm after having their g-spot stimulated, they will tell you it was one of their most intense orgasms ever.  For those men that cringe at the thought of having the male g-spot massaged, they just fear the unknown.

The male g-spot is not a place that many men will explore for the simply fact it is located between their scrotum and anus.  That doesn’t sound so bad.  However, to successfully have it stimulated by their mate, access is gained by inserting a well lubricated finger or device about 2 centimeters inside the butt.

Yep, you read it right.  The male g-spot is located up a man’s ass.

For the majority of men who fantasize about anal sex with their partners, they see no problems with inserting their dick up their partners butt when it’s erect and about 4 -5 times more round than a typical woman’s finger.  However, when the roles are reversed and it requires the insertion of a finger to stimulate the male g-spot, they cringe and screak in terror.

The male g-spot is actually the man’s prostate.  And having this slightly stimulated during oral sex will drive the man crazy.  In fact, there are numerous documented cases of men reaching orgasm while having their prostate examined in a doctor’s office.

For the man, having his g-spot slightly massaged while receiving oral sex will send him shuttering in pleasure.  The intensity of a blow job increases ten fold during this practice and there are many men who cannot control the flow of pre-cum during male g-spot stimulation.

A partner with a skilled finger can control the intensity during male g-spot stimulation, bringing him to the brink of orgasm only to stop and have him beg for more.

So men, remember, that while having your g-spot stimulated may sound painful, it is anything but.  Open your mind to the possibilities and allow your partner to explore.

Many people fantasize about being with another partner, it’s normal in any relationship to wonder “what if”.  Going that extra step and turning fantasy into reality takes a special kind of personality.

Having an affair means being able to look at your partner each day knowing that you have violated a trust.  Having an affair means you have to deal with a variety of emotions that could include guilt and fear.  Would you be able to cope with knowing that someone might find out your little secret?

Being faithful is hard work.  Just look at the statistics.  Many more people are being unfaithful and more marriages are ending in divorce than ever before.

But what drives someone to have an affair?

Is it the excitement of feeling someone different touch you?  Caress you?  Kiss you?

Being intimate with someone else outside of a relationship is an adrenaline rush.  There’s no denying that very moment when there’s penetration, hearing the gasp of your partner, the gentle squeezing and the release at climax can be addictive.  It is a spark that quite often has been missing from the long-term relationship.

Having an affair may have its merits but throwing caution to the wind may be best suited for fantasy.  Keep your relationship fresh with role play, surprises and an willingness to explore.  Be creative and use some toys, push your limits and then beyond

This addiction to porn has resulted in a condition that has been referred to as “porn creep”, where men in general, develop an inability to get an erection unless they are exposed to pornography. Some doctors have said that this condition occurs because these men have developed a disassociation between sex and human contact.

In male virgins, the effects of porn creep can be severe because these men have never had any association with humans in a sexual setting. They have no prior association with humans and sex, making it more difficult to make the connection required to become aroused when porn is not involved.

Some doctors argue that porn creep does not exist, yet several studies have shown that people who develop a porn addiction do have a more difficult time becoming aroused in real life situations. Additionally, these individuals tend to have more extreme views of sex in general.

Are you addicted to porn? Does porn creep really exist?

While there are conflicting views, as with anything, moderation is something that should be used even when enjoying the world of porn.